Children of café owner killed in Durham gas explosion speak out after losing ‘best dad we could have ever asked for’

DURHAM, N.C.  — The family of 61-year-old Kong Lee, the owner of Kaffeinate coffee shop who was killed in a gas explosion in downtown Durham on Wednesday, has released a statement, WTVD reports.

The heartfelt words were posted to Instagram on Friday morning.

“This is our dad,” the caption reads below a photo of Lee smiling with his two children, Diana and Raymond. “He had the biggest, purest heart out of anyone we know. He always wanted a cafe because he loved to serve people, and we were finally able to build him one.”

The tribute post goes on to mention Lee’s love for the shop and how he enjoyed making people smile.

“A lot of this still seems unreal, including the outpouring of love and support from our community. We lost the best dad we could have ever asked for.”

The post states Lee contacted his kids on Wednesday to let them know there was a gas leak and that he was closing the shop. He said he was creating a sign to put on the door in case anyone came by later in the day.

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This is our dad. He had the biggest, purest heart out of anyone we know. He always wanted a cafe because he loved to serve people, and we were finally able to build him one. He loved being able to bring people something that would make them smile. The family we created at Kaffeinate made him so happy. We watched your smiles give him strength and joy. Thank you. Above all, he valued family, and he did everything to give us the best life he could. That means he often worked 12-13 hour days doing jobs no one else wanted to do. He never complained because he never wanted us to worry. That was our dad. – A lot of this still seems unreal, including the outpouring of love and support from our community. We lost the best dad we could have ever asked for. We lost our only source of income. Thank you to everyone who has wanted to and been able to donate to us to buy us time until we can figure out what's next. I will post the link in our bio to a gofundme started by our friend. Thank you to the EMS, firefighters, police and everyone else who helped during the crisis. Thank you to everyone who is guiding us through this time. We admit this is all new territory for us and are not quite sure what comes after. – One note: our baristas are fantastic and also have lost their place of work. Please help us find jobs for them. Raymond will need a job also when he is ready. – The last we heard from our dad, he called us to tell us there was a gas leak outside and to let our staff and customers know we would be closed for the day. He was going to close up and make a sign to put on our door in case anybody came by later. He took such good care of the shop and was so proud of it. If you have any memories of him, please share them with us below. – Lastly, Kaffeinate is closed indefinitely. It always was and always will be for our dad. We've been discussing it and hope one day to be able to rebuild and reopen and bring his memory back to life. 아빠, we will miss you every single day. We love you so much more than you will ever know. – Please forgive us if we have not responded to you. It's not because we don't want to, it's because we don't know what to say. – Diana & Raymond

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